I'm new here and I posted this in the general forum but now realize it would better suited for this section. My husband got a good video camera this year and it's been making appearances in our bedroom periodically...at first with my consent to just dance/strip...but then after that one night I noticed he kept the camera out and pointed at us during sex...I saw the camera and afterward he showed me some of the footage, but at no point did he clearly ask me if it was OK to tape us having sex. I rolled with it, and sometimes I'd notice the camera, sometimes not. Well, we went away for our anniversary and he brought the camera, I posed for him, but then told him I was done with the camera. He said OK and put it on a nearby chair. Then I turned around and noticed the light was still on and I asked if it was turned off...he acted dumb and said Oh, I don't know, and he looked at it and turned it off. This really disturbed me. I have been happy with him and we'v e had some great experiences lately, but this has turned me off and I feel hurt. I said so and he apologized profusely. I guess I'm just looking for input/opinions/words of wisdom. I went away to celebrate our love and connection and instead I feel fetishized and deceived.
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