Hi Ladies. I am separated from my H and been seeing my BF for 5 months now. BF and I have been "sexually active" for around 3 of those months and he has been having some issues with keeping an erection. He is 33, in good shape, maybe an extra 15lbs and also separated (about 9 months for him). His ex wife cheated on him, twice which he knows about, which is why he ended the marriage, he also told me she would bring up his erection issues as the reason she cheated. He told me he had been having issues for about 2 years or more and doesn't know why. He is a very sexual person. He always gets an erection but it's keeping it long enough to have actual intercourse that's the issue. He said it seems like the act of putting on the condom usually does it (he has to wear one and has no problem doing so). A lot of the time, even me giving him a BJ won't keep it hard. He has been to the Dr and they said everything is fine. His blood work came back normal. The Dr told him it could be stress, which I do understand, but this is driving him nuts. He feels like a failure and just wants to be able to have sex when we want. We are VERY happy and in love, and I have tried to be so supportive and tell him it doesn't matter to me, I love him no matter what, but seeing him so upset is painful. He was prescribed Viagra which was like a kick to the gut for him, but it did work. Wondering if anyone has any advice for me? Anything I can do for him? Thanks in advance
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