My wife and I have been together for 4 years. I have never cheated, nor do I plan on it. I love my family and they are my top priority.
Last night I had a very vivid dream about connecting with another woman. This is not the first time. Every month or two I will have one of these dreams where I meet, flirt and connect with someone other than my wife. The dreams aren't overly sexual. I don't feel aroused when I wake up, and I don't really remember anything specifically physical or explicit. Generally I am talking with and enjoying the company of another woman - as a friend, companion and romantic interest. There is always an attraction, laughing and great conversation. Some touching and kissing too - but this is about the limit of physical pleasure before I - in my dream - start to fight with the inner conflict of taking it further.
This is always with a woman I have never met. It's not even necessarily the same woman. There is no common physical trait that ties them together. It isn't someone that I know. The only thing that is consistent is the strong connection and enjoyment of the time I spend with this person. I also know, in my dream, that I am a married man. I do feel that what I'm doing is wrong. I am enjoying the connection with another woman too much, and I want it to continue. But I feel guilty while I am doing it.
I don't awake with overwhelming feelings of guilt. I know this is just a dream. but I am sad and disappointed to some degree when I awake to find this isn't real. I'd like to know if others have experienced such dreams and what you feel they mean.
Last night I had a very vivid dream about connecting with another woman. This is not the first time. Every month or two I will have one of these dreams where I meet, flirt and connect with someone other than my wife. The dreams aren't overly sexual. I don't feel aroused when I wake up, and I don't really remember anything specifically physical or explicit. Generally I am talking with and enjoying the company of another woman - as a friend, companion and romantic interest. There is always an attraction, laughing and great conversation. Some touching and kissing too - but this is about the limit of physical pleasure before I - in my dream - start to fight with the inner conflict of taking it further.
This is always with a woman I have never met. It's not even necessarily the same woman. There is no common physical trait that ties them together. It isn't someone that I know. The only thing that is consistent is the strong connection and enjoyment of the time I spend with this person. I also know, in my dream, that I am a married man. I do feel that what I'm doing is wrong. I am enjoying the connection with another woman too much, and I want it to continue. But I feel guilty while I am doing it.
I don't awake with overwhelming feelings of guilt. I know this is just a dream. but I am sad and disappointed to some degree when I awake to find this isn't real. I'd like to know if others have experienced such dreams and what you feel they mean.
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