I am 33 and my wife is 38. We have been together for 11 years and married for 6 of them. We have 3 kids together and they are beautiful.
My question is how do I get her to physically love me. She does not hug or kiss me. All of the physical affection is done by me. She only seems to need me for my paycheck to support our home. Or atleast that is how I feel about it.
Sex has always been luke warm. She is timid and does not like trying anything new. She never even touches me during sex. No making out and hates fourplay most times.
I have pleaded with her in the past that I need for her to show me love. Even this last time a few weeks ago when I told her that I was not sure what my options are if she won't love me.
Most times after we talk she gets better for a few days then back to the old same situation.
I really don't want to split up our marriage and my kids but I am depressed about all of this. This has gone on for years now and with each kid it all gets worse. She only thinks about the kids needs and literally everything else is worthless to her as that is how I feel.
Telling me she loves me all the time but NEVER shows it ever!
Any suggestions on how to deal with this ? I am at my end with all of this.
Thank You.
My question is how do I get her to physically love me. She does not hug or kiss me. All of the physical affection is done by me. She only seems to need me for my paycheck to support our home. Or atleast that is how I feel about it.
Sex has always been luke warm. She is timid and does not like trying anything new. She never even touches me during sex. No making out and hates fourplay most times.
I have pleaded with her in the past that I need for her to show me love. Even this last time a few weeks ago when I told her that I was not sure what my options are if she won't love me.
Most times after we talk she gets better for a few days then back to the old same situation.
I really don't want to split up our marriage and my kids but I am depressed about all of this. This has gone on for years now and with each kid it all gets worse. She only thinks about the kids needs and literally everything else is worthless to her as that is how I feel.
Telling me she loves me all the time but NEVER shows it ever!
Any suggestions on how to deal with this ? I am at my end with all of this.
Thank You.
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