I am so angry and hurt! My husband regularly rejects me or keeps a lackluster attitude about intimacy. I've been dealing with this for months now, and it's taking a serious toll on me mentally. My self esteem is really suffering.
Dealing with rejection as wife and woman is uniquely painful, as men are supposed to be horny and ready to go all of the time. When my man doesn't live up to this expectation, then I feel so unsexy, unwanted, like a failure.
For months, I've felt like the only woman on earth with this problem. All of the women in my circle of friends complain that their husbands chase them non-stop. When they gripe and joke about it, I fake-laugh along with them, but inside I'm feeling sheepish and flawed. For months, it's been my little secret frustration. I did confide to my best girlfriend, and she had little sympathy for me. She actually said, "What a nice dilemma to have!"
In one way, I'm happy to have found this forum, as now I don't feel so alone. I never would have thought other women deal with this problem. I always thought men want sex all the time from anyone.
Dealing with rejection as wife and woman is uniquely painful, as men are supposed to be horny and ready to go all of the time. When my man doesn't live up to this expectation, then I feel so unsexy, unwanted, like a failure.
For months, I've felt like the only woman on earth with this problem. All of the women in my circle of friends complain that their husbands chase them non-stop. When they gripe and joke about it, I fake-laugh along with them, but inside I'm feeling sheepish and flawed. For months, it's been my little secret frustration. I did confide to my best girlfriend, and she had little sympathy for me. She actually said, "What a nice dilemma to have!"
In one way, I'm happy to have found this forum, as now I don't feel so alone. I never would have thought other women deal with this problem. I always thought men want sex all the time from anyone.
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