Well here we go. She has been getting angry at me for small things lately and felt that it was strange. It really threw me so I decided to look around a bit. I just found some private messaging on my wife's Facebook account. She had left it logged in so I looked around there. I found these messages between her and an old boyfriend. It seemed innocent enough until I saw some where he was inviting her to come see him. Now he live in Massachusetts and we're in California so I know she hasn't actually seen him but she did respond to him saying that it would be great and maybe she would in the fall because she would love to see the seasons change. There were a few more inappropriate things said as well. I have always trusted her completely but no I'm not so sure now. My first wife cheated on me and I was oblivious to it. I won't repeat that mistake.
She works out of town, about 100 miles away, Monday through Wed and works from home the rest of the time. Am I over reacting or should I investigate more? I am a computer tech and I'm aware of the tools I can use to see what's up but I don't want to chance the repercussions of being caught checking up on her. Does anyone have suggestions how I should proceed?
She works out of town, about 100 miles away, Monday through Wed and works from home the rest of the time. Am I over reacting or should I investigate more? I am a computer tech and I'm aware of the tools I can use to see what's up but I don't want to chance the repercussions of being caught checking up on her. Does anyone have suggestions how I should proceed?
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