Background: My wife and I have been married for almost 30 years. I have a best friend from college who my wife has known since we got married. We all have been close over the years.
We used to visit my friend and his wife many times over the last 20 years. Many times staying at his house (Chicago) for the weekend. His kids and my kids grew up together, now all the kids are grown up and on their own. My friend has been separated for the last 2.5 years, with the divorce being finalized last week. (His 2nd divorce)
Anyway, we continued to visit him and spend weekends together even after his separation. Last labor day, we went to visit him for the weekend and see my son, who also lives in Chicago.
The whole weekend, he seemed to be paying a lot of attention towards my wife. Saturday night he slept on the couch in his boxers and my wife and I slept in his bedroom. Sunday morning he woke up and started making breakfast in his boxers, no shirt. He did not put any clothes on when my wife woke up and came out of the bedroom. He stood very close to my wife in the kitchen explaining what he was going to make for breakfast.
I was offended, and told him to put his pants on. He finally put them on after I told him off. My wife and I soon left and spent the rest of the day at my son's house.
My wife always asks how he is and thinks I should be close friends again. WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE?
We used to visit my friend and his wife many times over the last 20 years. Many times staying at his house (Chicago) for the weekend. His kids and my kids grew up together, now all the kids are grown up and on their own. My friend has been separated for the last 2.5 years, with the divorce being finalized last week. (His 2nd divorce)
Anyway, we continued to visit him and spend weekends together even after his separation. Last labor day, we went to visit him for the weekend and see my son, who also lives in Chicago.
The whole weekend, he seemed to be paying a lot of attention towards my wife. Saturday night he slept on the couch in his boxers and my wife and I slept in his bedroom. Sunday morning he woke up and started making breakfast in his boxers, no shirt. He did not put any clothes on when my wife woke up and came out of the bedroom. He stood very close to my wife in the kitchen explaining what he was going to make for breakfast.
I was offended, and told him to put his pants on. He finally put them on after I told him off. My wife and I soon left and spent the rest of the day at my son's house.
My wife always asks how he is and thinks I should be close friends again. WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE?
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