About 7 months ago, I posted here about my situation, and I asked if anyone had a similar experience, the net result was general derision rather than support (there were a few who were kind and supportive they are greatly appreciated)
I'm not going to summarize the previous posts, you can go and read the situation. However half a year down the track I thought I would update the forum.
Why?
Because it may help someone to be a little slower on the trigger and consider other possibilities.
My wife came back from her tryst broken about how she had treated me.
She has since been completely open with me about everything in her life.
Talk about change. Instead of maintaining a relationship with the OM she has come to see him as a black mark across her life and has completely cut ties with him, and family where necessary.
She took the step of telling her family what happened and how she had treated me (unilaterally)
The focus on family and me has completely changed, she tells me all the time that she will do anything any time to make it up to me, no limits no questions, all I have to do is ask.
Eldest son came in the other day and said. "Mum I reel really loved for the first time and it's making me a better person at school too, thank you"
We have a real relationship and real family life, it is amazing to experience, sex life is amazing and we communicate everything from general chitchat about the day to deep conversations. The kids are even volunteering for chores.
I know it's only 7 months, but I'm calling it a win as the last 6 months have been exceptionally happy. There seem to be so few good news relationship stories here that it is worth sharing the wins, even if it took an unconventional path to get there.
I'm not going to summarize the previous posts, you can go and read the situation. However half a year down the track I thought I would update the forum.
Why?
Because it may help someone to be a little slower on the trigger and consider other possibilities.
My wife came back from her tryst broken about how she had treated me.
She has since been completely open with me about everything in her life.
Talk about change. Instead of maintaining a relationship with the OM she has come to see him as a black mark across her life and has completely cut ties with him, and family where necessary.
She took the step of telling her family what happened and how she had treated me (unilaterally)
The focus on family and me has completely changed, she tells me all the time that she will do anything any time to make it up to me, no limits no questions, all I have to do is ask.
Eldest son came in the other day and said. "Mum I reel really loved for the first time and it's making me a better person at school too, thank you"
We have a real relationship and real family life, it is amazing to experience, sex life is amazing and we communicate everything from general chitchat about the day to deep conversations. The kids are even volunteering for chores.
I know it's only 7 months, but I'm calling it a win as the last 6 months have been exceptionally happy. There seem to be so few good news relationship stories here that it is worth sharing the wins, even if it took an unconventional path to get there.
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