I've posted here before and thought in February we had made improvements in our sex life.
I guess I was wrong. Its been 3 months since we had any intimacy. Some of that was due to her having gastric sleeve surgery in April. So we couldn't do anything till she healed up.
But now here it is june and nothing. 2 nights ago we were cuddling and she made the comment that maybe the next night we could have some "time" together. Yet last night nothing again. Yet I know she masturbates, so I've come to the conclusion its me.
As thought about it all night last night ( I went and slept in the other room) I keep asking what im doing wrong. I help out with all the chores, do activities with the kids, tell my wife I love her, but all I get out of her is " its not you its me" .
I guess what im asking is does it get any easier??? I've read the books,, and don't know what to try anymore. I love my kids to death but eventually this will effect them as well.
I know my wife loves me, she tells me every morning and every night. She also knows she has no desire, she has said she hope it comes back. She gets real upset when I try to talk to her about it. I'm getting to the point where im getting half ways depressed about it.
We talk about counciling but she keeps saying that it will come back. Is there anyone that went to counciling by themselves??? and did it help??? I consider myself a strong willed individual who if I put my mind to something I can overcome anything!!!!
Sorry ive rattled on I just needed to get it off my chest!!!!!:(
I guess I was wrong. Its been 3 months since we had any intimacy. Some of that was due to her having gastric sleeve surgery in April. So we couldn't do anything till she healed up.
But now here it is june and nothing. 2 nights ago we were cuddling and she made the comment that maybe the next night we could have some "time" together. Yet last night nothing again. Yet I know she masturbates, so I've come to the conclusion its me.
As thought about it all night last night ( I went and slept in the other room) I keep asking what im doing wrong. I help out with all the chores, do activities with the kids, tell my wife I love her, but all I get out of her is " its not you its me" .
I guess what im asking is does it get any easier??? I've read the books,, and don't know what to try anymore. I love my kids to death but eventually this will effect them as well.
I know my wife loves me, she tells me every morning and every night. She also knows she has no desire, she has said she hope it comes back. She gets real upset when I try to talk to her about it. I'm getting to the point where im getting half ways depressed about it.
We talk about counciling but she keeps saying that it will come back. Is there anyone that went to counciling by themselves??? and did it help??? I consider myself a strong willed individual who if I put my mind to something I can overcome anything!!!!
Sorry ive rattled on I just needed to get it off my chest!!!!!:(
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