Hi all. Been reading some great advice on these forums for almost a year now.
Long story short, W and I have been M for 6 years. I confronted her about an EA she was having with someone a couple hours away. She admitted to it, denied a PA, but also never committed to ending the affair. She's showing all WAW signs, she says she's done and doesn't want to be married to me anymore. I'm not sure if this affair is an exit affair or she's just caught up in the fantasy/fog of something new. She's still in contact with him, at least by phone/text.
I'm thinking my only chance is exposure, to her family, mutual friends. However, I know OM has an ex-wife - they were divorced less than a year ago and OM also has a son (maybe 3 or 4 years old) with his ex-wife.
Should I expose the EA to OM's ex-wife since he's not currently married? Would that accomplish anything? Looking for some guidance here.
Long story short, W and I have been M for 6 years. I confronted her about an EA she was having with someone a couple hours away. She admitted to it, denied a PA, but also never committed to ending the affair. She's showing all WAW signs, she says she's done and doesn't want to be married to me anymore. I'm not sure if this affair is an exit affair or she's just caught up in the fantasy/fog of something new. She's still in contact with him, at least by phone/text.
I'm thinking my only chance is exposure, to her family, mutual friends. However, I know OM has an ex-wife - they were divorced less than a year ago and OM also has a son (maybe 3 or 4 years old) with his ex-wife.
Should I expose the EA to OM's ex-wife since he's not currently married? Would that accomplish anything? Looking for some guidance here.
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