I've been married over 10+ years. I've not had sex in 8 years of marriage, although we have a child together. I love to cuddle, fondle, and have sex, she is LD and does not like being touched, never mind anything more than that.
I've stayed together for the sake of our child, but I've decided to move on and file divorce.
I've spoken about this for 4 years now, and am ready to file. She wants to work things out, go to counseling. She doesn't understand I've already mentally been gone so long ago.
What will it take to get through her head that this thing is done? I will not sacrifice another year of my prime life to live as a monk. People talk about counseling and therapy as if they are such positive things and can work miracles. Sorry, not in my case, my mind is gone. I'm resentful and bitter, but I treat her with full respect and civility, and offer her the courtesy of a mediated / collaborative divorce, as opposed to going to a lawyer and filing by myself.
She refuses to accept it...WTF? I'm so done with this... :scratchhead:
I've stayed together for the sake of our child, but I've decided to move on and file divorce.
I've spoken about this for 4 years now, and am ready to file. She wants to work things out, go to counseling. She doesn't understand I've already mentally been gone so long ago.
What will it take to get through her head that this thing is done? I will not sacrifice another year of my prime life to live as a monk. People talk about counseling and therapy as if they are such positive things and can work miracles. Sorry, not in my case, my mind is gone. I'm resentful and bitter, but I treat her with full respect and civility, and offer her the courtesy of a mediated / collaborative divorce, as opposed to going to a lawyer and filing by myself.
She refuses to accept it...WTF? I'm so done with this... :scratchhead:
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