I have a close friend and another close friend who is a girl, thing is this girl is breaking up with her boyfriend and he knows that I like her, but I think he does to. Difference being I don't trust him not to make a move. Reason I say this is because he constantly says to me, "I know you like her" but I just say nothing as if to say shut the **** up. He'll say something to that effect or blatantly just say it like that. Yet on other occasions he's said pretty harshly as well "I'm going to try it on with her" - yet he knows I like her.
Sad matter of the fact is I get all worked up because I'm pretty sure he stands a better chance than I do. Even though this girl has been getting pretty flirty with me lately. I think he's better than me, but in other cases I'm pretty sure I'm "better" than him in the sense that she's not the only girl I'm talking to, I do have others, but its this one girl who is special to me, she seems to be different than the others, always makes me happy when she's around there is just a mutual respect for one another in the sense that we care & help each other out when the other person is down or if they need someone to talk to we can go to each other.
But this one guy there is something about him I do NOT trust at all. Maybe because he's had previous in that he stole his best mates girl. Now this was a long time ago when he was younger and he's said that he won't do it again. But I just do not trust him not to make a move on her, when he full well knows I like her.
If he does it will crush me as I will no longer trust ANYONE at all. Everyone will be placed at arms length, it just seems so easy for everyone to get with each other in my group of friends. Thats not to say that we are all ****ing each other, its to say that every time one of my mates tries with a girl they succeed. In the past year or so I've tried with many a girl and failed. These guys try with one and they get the girl. This girl no matter how many times I doubt myself I feel is my best chance to finally date a girl. I'd be happy with just one date with her, if it doesn't work out then great. I'd just be happy that I was able to take her out on a date, and that she was willing to spend time alone with me.
What should I do about this situation?
Wait until it arises in conversation with him again and tell him to not make a move?
Or just make a fool of myself (supposedly) and say to him, look you know I like her so can you not try it on. Y'know grow some balls and talk to other girls?
Put the internet to work for you.
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