OK I'm going to try and make this the short version, A little over a year ago my husband had an affair with a coworker. I found out and asked him to leave then started the divorce process. He asked to come home and work on us told me he ended his affair. 3 months later I catch him again and the the trickle truth started and I found out she was moving into the same town as us, which he knew. Which has really messed with my head running into her and her husband all the time(small town) and I did expose the A to OWH also. Our kids now go to the same school. So I guess my question is has anyone been through something similar and R? I do love my husband just not like I used to. My fear is this has changed me so much that it wouldn't matter if I stayed or left I would feel the same . I asked for a trial separation, but its more to see if I can handle raising 3 kids on my own or if it would be easier just to stay he is doing everything that I ask but it just see ms like too little effort too late especially having to relive it everyday driving past their house to go anywhere, no way around that one! Any advise would be greatly appreciated I feel like a different person no emotion, no anger, just alive not looking forward to anything like my old life used to have purpose, this new one is so blah!
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment