So here is my problem. I am a male and 30 years old. I have just been married for a little over a year but been with her for about 4 years. Leading up to our marriage everything was good. But shortly after the wedding things started going south. While we were on our honey moon she was constantly on her phone. She seemed more concerned about her friends then enjoying our vacation. We never even got intimate on our honeymoon. I was able to look past that. Shortly after we returned we went to dinner with some friends. Some how we got talking about bi sexuals. Then my wife proceeds to tell me she is one which I did not know prior. Then I found out she was sending naked pictures to her best friend telling her how she wishes she was there (while on our honey moon). I got a little upset and we talked about it and talked it out. If we fast forward to today we barely have intimacy since we've been married. Less than 15 times in a little over a year. I try to be in timate with her not just sexually but cuddling and holding hands and she pushes me away as if she wants nothing to do with me. She has a low sex drive which I understand so I don't get to upset about it. Lately though I try to spark conversations just so we can communicate better. About a few months ago she was texting one of her friends. I asked her who she was talking to and she told me. In just trying to keep the convo going I asked what they were talking about. She responded does it matter? That kinda hurt me. Here I was just trying to make conversation and I get struck in the face. Once again we talked about it a few days later and moved on. Now today she texts me at work that she was going to some cookout out with one of her friends for her friends work thing. I responded ok. I then asked her where it was going to be she responded to me i dont know why? I responded with because I'm your husband and that it'd be nice to know where my wife is you know just in case. She f lat out responded just because your my husband doesn't give you the right to know where I am. Today to me that took it to another level. I feel like she is only married to me to make her parents happy. She pushes me away emotionally and physically and I really don't know what else to do. I love my wife but feel like I don't get that love in return. I'm i right for being upset and confused on what to do? Or am I just being over reactive?
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