My girlfriend and I have only been going out for a short-while.
Up until recently things were going well, until she moved back home with she parents for summer. Things went LDR.
We have gone from texting constantly, to sporadically...she may send me about between 1-3 text a day. Whereas before it was back an forth.
I know that, understandably, communication over time dwindles, particularly in relationships and more over the strain of long distance. However we've only been going out a month...it all seems a little redundant.
I may get the odd "good morning babes/baby" text...to which I reply, and usually I may not get a reply back all day/night, to which she will often give an excuse like "....sorry phone died", "sorry was busy", "sorry I fell asleep and forgot to reply and I feel bad".
I had noticed a frequency in these excuses, and her saying she was out doing this and that and also that she feels bad for it.
I had noticed she takes longer to reply and see my messages, not sure it's deliberate or not.
Also I've seen on her Facebook profile she's changed her picture from us, and liked some picture about love which states that unless love is mad, passionate etc etc etc then it is mediocre, and mediocre is a waste of time, since everything else in life is like this.
I'm not sure if she's trying to say something? Surely someone would just tell me if they didn't want to be in the relationship?
Prior to been with me, she never was in relationships for a while, and where she was, they weren't serious. She just used to sleep with people, have ONS because she felt it was easier to deal with.
She's admitted to times when friends have kissed her whilst drunk...but said they used to do this before she was with me. So it's habitual. I dismissed it entirely, said it was fine provided it was a mistake.
What do you think?
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