OK... I really want to date someone who actually likes me back. Just a
list of the issues I am facing:
- I genuinely don't know who has emotions for me. There are no absolute
signs ever given and nobody has approached me with romantic interests in a
long time.
- I am insecure about myself and wish I could improve aspects of my appearance
which I believe may be holding me back from 'getting dates' and improving
my chances at finding someone who I can have a relationship with
- I have not held hands, cuddled or kissed with genuine passion in a while.
I try to repress these desires but they're now getting too strong and are
making me jittery and irrational at times (completely opposed to the character
I usually have, of the rational and analytical observer).
- I am not completely straight, so my interests are sometimes others of the
same gender.
- Have been emotionally rejected when I was young and growing up so I find
it extremely hard to take anymore rejections. This has made my character
very harsh as I find ways to put people down, in my mind, even when they
have not taken any negative actions towards me. I know that if I did
not experience rejection and loneliness for a long time then I could love them.
What should I do? I've been living like a hermit for more than 4 years. No friends
whatsoever, just fleeting conversations with people who I never really
establish a relationship with after. I feel ashamed of myself, that I could
be so repulsive to others that they don't bother with me.
Apart from increasing my self-confidence, what answers does TSR have?
Thank you. I really wish I had a friend who I could call and relax with now, or
a partner who I would share my day, interests and cuddle with.
Put the internet to work for you.
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