I'm at a loss / help

I need advise from a women's point of view.

My wife and I have been together going on 21 years with 4 kids which are all grown up. My wife is beautiful, caring, smart and loves me to death. Last September I got mad because we didn't make love and she snapped and said she didn't feel like making love all these years because she doesn't have that desire anymore and hasn't for years. She only did it because she knew it was important to me and to keep us together. I finally heard her and felt bad for pushing her to make love to me when she wasn't in the mood.
We went 3 months without making love and last December we did and it was nice.
It's been 5 months now and still she doesn't want to make love, but says she loves me.
My question is how can a women sleep with me cuddle in the morning, hug me, kiss me through out the day, but have no desire for Intimacy?
We work and live together and get along great except for the bad subject of I like making love to my wife!!!
Like I said we are together all the time so there's no cheating going on..

I'm truly at a loss / any thoughts.

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