Hey guys a fairly long one but I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Let me know if you have any questions.
Me and my Ex broke up approximately 5 months ago (I was the dumpee). I made a previous thread around Christmas if anyone can be bothered to read that much into things. http://ift.tt/1jgvX2O
Since the relationship ended I have grown a lot as a person and I now have a good job and a much larger friendship group.
Until recently, the last 2 ½ months were complete no contact between us. I have started seeing another girl since then and things are going well although we are not incredibly serious. Recently though something weird has started happening.
I deleted her from all social media available to me apart from Snapchat as I forgot I had her on it and she never used it anyway (at the time). I've always sent occasional snaps to everyone on my list but the other week I sent one of myself after work (To everyone) and she screenshotted it, sent me a copy via whatsapp and asked why she was receiving it. I figured this was just her being angry and told her it was an accident and left things at that.
Since then over the course of the last week I have noticed that she has been screenshotting every picture I post to my snapchat story that has me in it or is even distantly related to me at all.
I have also heard recently from a mutual friend (Her best friend) that she is still 'sad' and not completely over me yet. The mutual friend also asked about the new girl.
I really like the new girl but I know deep down I still have feelings for my ex and obviously if I were to start talking to her again I would do the decent thing and end things with the girl I'm seeing.
Basically, this has set back my healing process somewhat and I'm wondering what to do. I don't know how much I should read into these minor breadcrumbs although I still have feelings for this girl but I'm not sure what would be the most beneficial thing to do in the long run is.
Ultimately I need to ask what if I were to re-establish contact with my EX what the best way to go about it is. I've recently been really tempted to confront her asking why she is screenshotting pictures of me off snapchat. I've also considered calling/texting her or even writing a large facebook message thanking her for the past and wishing her well.
TL;DR Ex broke no contact to message about a snapchat (Seemed a bit minor to break no contact). She has recently been screenshotting all the pictures of me I have been posting. Have been speaking to a mutual friend (Closer friends with her) who has asked about the girl I'm currently seeing and mentioned my ex is still a bit sad about things. I miss her and am thinking about contacting her, should I? Does she miss me and what method of contact is best?
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