I have been with my wife tens years and married five . She recently left me for about the third time 6 months ago. We have an 8 year old daughter who is not biologically mine but i have raised her and love her as mine. We met tens years ago and dated, we spilt up she met someone else and got pregnant by a drug addict boyfriend and we met up and got back together so i helped raise her daughter.
Each time we break up wife does not let me see my daughter and is quite nasty to me. We have always had a very volatile relationship we were arguing 3 days after we got married. Everyone tells me that i should not go back with my wife. That all is doing is controlling and using me. When she left me this time i read a text on her phone that she sent to her mum saying she was only with me for my money. (I work she never has).
This time with the split it is different because i met someone else. This girl at work who told me she like me earlier this year , i had always liked her. We never done anything about it and the girl always kept away as she knew i was married etc. however in sept i started spending time with her and it has been so good . She is such a lovely person. I went on holiday on my own for a week in Nov and when i got back i couldn't wait to see her again.
However also when i got back from my holiday my wife started contacting me, she has heard i was seeing someone and it has messed my head up. She let me see my daughter when for the last few months she told me my daughter hated me. She is now telling me she misses me and wants to come home. Everyone tells me she only wants me back cos she doesn't want anyone else to have me and its obvious as she didn't want to know before. I just miss my daughter so much. I had to stop seeing the girl at work as i need to clear my head. People tell me I'm a fool if i take my wife back and she uses me and uses daughter to control me and that we will just fall back into arguing and just split up again eventually. I miss the family but not sure i miss her.
I spent christmas alone, i took presents over to them at wife's mothers house, i thought she would call my daughter to the door to see me but they didn't just took the presents and i never saw my daughter all over christmas.
Wife still wants to get back together. I know im a fool. This other girl was so lovely and I've really hurt her. She has asked me to keep my distance from her at work as she now needs to have time to heal from me.
If i give it one more go with wife do you think we will work? I just want to see my daughter so much and be part of her life.
If i really honest the reason i have not taken her back so quickly is that letting go of this other girl is so hard. My feeling are genuine
for her.
Each time we break up wife does not let me see my daughter and is quite nasty to me. We have always had a very volatile relationship we were arguing 3 days after we got married. Everyone tells me that i should not go back with my wife. That all is doing is controlling and using me. When she left me this time i read a text on her phone that she sent to her mum saying she was only with me for my money. (I work she never has).
This time with the split it is different because i met someone else. This girl at work who told me she like me earlier this year , i had always liked her. We never done anything about it and the girl always kept away as she knew i was married etc. however in sept i started spending time with her and it has been so good . She is such a lovely person. I went on holiday on my own for a week in Nov and when i got back i couldn't wait to see her again.
However also when i got back from my holiday my wife started contacting me, she has heard i was seeing someone and it has messed my head up. She let me see my daughter when for the last few months she told me my daughter hated me. She is now telling me she misses me and wants to come home. Everyone tells me she only wants me back cos she doesn't want anyone else to have me and its obvious as she didn't want to know before. I just miss my daughter so much. I had to stop seeing the girl at work as i need to clear my head. People tell me I'm a fool if i take my wife back and she uses me and uses daughter to control me and that we will just fall back into arguing and just split up again eventually. I miss the family but not sure i miss her.
I spent christmas alone, i took presents over to them at wife's mothers house, i thought she would call my daughter to the door to see me but they didn't just took the presents and i never saw my daughter all over christmas.
Wife still wants to get back together. I know im a fool. This other girl was so lovely and I've really hurt her. She has asked me to keep my distance from her at work as she now needs to have time to heal from me.
If i give it one more go with wife do you think we will work? I just want to see my daughter so much and be part of her life.
If i really honest the reason i have not taken her back so quickly is that letting go of this other girl is so hard. My feeling are genuine
for her.
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