I'm in my final year at Uni and I've never been in a relationship here - I find it hard to go into one when deep-down I know its something I wouldn't want in the long-run. Like I don't want to even sound like a dick past Uni there's no chance it will work for a mix of reasons.
There's at least three girls who have feelings and I feel bad letting them down all of the time, but the way I see it is what's the point of going into a relation I that I see is destined to end in a year. The girls themselves are lovely and I have a lot in common with them but I feel like I can't go into the relationship if its going to end in a few months? I'm always tempted to try to ask one them out, though the way I see it is its not fair on them if its going to end.
I always like to try to remain neutral as well, like going out with one of them will just create conflict and why would I want to risk something that's going great.
Should I just live in the present and not worry about the future? Should I keep things how they're and eventually I'll find the right person? What do you think?
There's at least three girls who have feelings and I feel bad letting them down all of the time, but the way I see it is what's the point of going into a relation I that I see is destined to end in a year. The girls themselves are lovely and I have a lot in common with them but I feel like I can't go into the relationship if its going to end in a few months? I'm always tempted to try to ask one them out, though the way I see it is its not fair on them if its going to end.
I always like to try to remain neutral as well, like going out with one of them will just create conflict and why would I want to risk something that's going great.
Should I just live in the present and not worry about the future? Should I keep things how they're and eventually I'll find the right person? What do you think?
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