I feel really upset but no one seems to understand why. They think I am overeacting.
Basically, my best friend and I had a house party (I'll call her A). We invited a few friends including someone we have been best friends with for about a year and work with. (Will refer to him as B).
We all played ring of fire and chatted. Then all of a sudden he got really drunk. B and I went out for a cigarette when he started crying. He told me he was in love with me and then started trying to put his hands down my trousers and asked me to straddle him. I said no, tried to calm him down and then went inside.
He started being abusive and loud in the house so I told him to go to sleep and got a duvet for him to sleep on downstairs.
About half an hour later he came into my room asking to sleep on the floor. I said no but he just sat there on my floor. I decided to ignore him and then he just clambered on top of me in my bed. I kept trying to push him off but he started taking his jeans off.
I tried so hard to push him off but he kept putting his hands in my underwear and grabbing my head to give him h***. I have a bruise on my neck from this. He kept trying to force his way onto me having sex and physically restrained me from getting out of the bed. This went on for an hour until he passed out.
I slept on the floor and when he woke up he said he had no memory of this. It was horrible seeing him be pally with everyone and talking to me as if nothing was wrong.
I told A about this and she said it was my fault for believing the things he says?! They are both hanging out tonight as she fancies his friend.
I feel so upset inside and as if the sanctity of my room has been violated. Not only this, but we work in similar teams at work and I have to deal with him on a daily basis. Because i had been drinking too (nowhere near as drunk and I have full memory of the night) I feel like no one is taking me seriously.
I just feel so betrayed that my "friend" could do this to me.
Basically, my best friend and I had a house party (I'll call her A). We invited a few friends including someone we have been best friends with for about a year and work with. (Will refer to him as B).
We all played ring of fire and chatted. Then all of a sudden he got really drunk. B and I went out for a cigarette when he started crying. He told me he was in love with me and then started trying to put his hands down my trousers and asked me to straddle him. I said no, tried to calm him down and then went inside.
He started being abusive and loud in the house so I told him to go to sleep and got a duvet for him to sleep on downstairs.
About half an hour later he came into my room asking to sleep on the floor. I said no but he just sat there on my floor. I decided to ignore him and then he just clambered on top of me in my bed. I kept trying to push him off but he started taking his jeans off.
I tried so hard to push him off but he kept putting his hands in my underwear and grabbing my head to give him h***. I have a bruise on my neck from this. He kept trying to force his way onto me having sex and physically restrained me from getting out of the bed. This went on for an hour until he passed out.
I slept on the floor and when he woke up he said he had no memory of this. It was horrible seeing him be pally with everyone and talking to me as if nothing was wrong.
I told A about this and she said it was my fault for believing the things he says?! They are both hanging out tonight as she fancies his friend.
I feel so upset inside and as if the sanctity of my room has been violated. Not only this, but we work in similar teams at work and I have to deal with him on a daily basis. Because i had been drinking too (nowhere near as drunk and I have full memory of the night) I feel like no one is taking me seriously.
I just feel so betrayed that my "friend" could do this to me.
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