I have read alot of people's advice to TAM members whose spouse wanted to separate but hasn't filed for the divorce himself/herself. It seems a big portion of members offer the suggestion to hire a lawyer and file divorce yourself, to sort of "shake up" your spouse into making a real decision. Personally, I am unsure how I feel about doing this.
First of all, I do not want to incur the cost of hiring a lawyer, putting down a retainer agreement and court costs just to scare my husband into (hopefully) reconciling with me. It seems to be a waste of money?
Secondly, as I do not want the divorce, I feel like I shouldn't be actively seeking to make it happen.
I was curious as to those TAM members who have been in my shoes and how they handled this tactic?
First of all, I do not want to incur the cost of hiring a lawyer, putting down a retainer agreement and court costs just to scare my husband into (hopefully) reconciling with me. It seems to be a waste of money?
Secondly, as I do not want the divorce, I feel like I shouldn't be actively seeking to make it happen.
I was curious as to those TAM members who have been in my shoes and how they handled this tactic?
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