I have a friend who is dating a guy, she is in her early 30s and he's mid 30s. They have been dating for a few months now. They are "official" but are not yet in the saying "I love you" stage yet. She likes him and thinks he's a good guy but she's realized that he has a much lower sex drive than her. He doesn't always respond to her when she starts kissing him a bit, and now she's starting to get a little insecure and won't get it until he wants it.
He has said something about that he used to have a higher sex drive but it's been low. But that's it. He's left her high and dry quite a few times too. He's not on medication but he did get a year of counseling for PTSD after his year in Afghanistan quite a few years ago.
She's starting to get a little desperate and was wondering if maybe it was HER. Which I quickly told her no, it wasn't her.
She's really sexual, so now I'm getting concerned about her being in a relationship with someone that doesn't have a matching sex drive.
We were talking about the ways she could bring it up to him. And it all sounds awkward, but she has to do it.
She's actually going to do a test run this weekend to see how he reacts, she's going to let her freak out and see if he responds, or rejects her.
Have any of you ladies been with men that have way lower sex drives than you? Did it get better or never change?
Also any men can jump in if they're reading
I've never dealt with something like that, so I don't have direct knowledge, but I do know that in the end she will end up frustrated if it doesn't change
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He has said something about that he used to have a higher sex drive but it's been low. But that's it. He's left her high and dry quite a few times too. He's not on medication but he did get a year of counseling for PTSD after his year in Afghanistan quite a few years ago.
She's starting to get a little desperate and was wondering if maybe it was HER. Which I quickly told her no, it wasn't her.
She's really sexual, so now I'm getting concerned about her being in a relationship with someone that doesn't have a matching sex drive.
We were talking about the ways she could bring it up to him. And it all sounds awkward, but she has to do it.
She's actually going to do a test run this weekend to see how he reacts, she's going to let her freak out and see if he responds, or rejects her.
Have any of you ladies been with men that have way lower sex drives than you? Did it get better or never change?
Also any men can jump in if they're reading
I've never dealt with something like that, so I don't have direct knowledge, but I do know that in the end she will end up frustrated if it doesn't change
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