I have been with my other half for almost 3 years. We have a long distance relationship, so we only get to see each other on the wknds. The 1st 6/9 months things were great, we had plenty of fun and the sex was exciting. Not as much as i was used to but as it was an LDR i kind of accepted that, but then the sex dried up completely.
The problem now is that He doesn't come anywhere near me, if i initiate it he shrugs it off. I have tried to talk about it with him but he shrugs it off that there is no problem. On the rare occasion he does relent and give in to my begging (yes, i beg for sex) He doesn't finish, it's a few mins of half hearted pumping and then he says he's tired, will finish later.
This may seem like a joke to some but it's a painful reality to me. I feel absolutely repulsive that he doesn't want to touch me at all. We have sex approx once or twice a month, but never to completion. I love him, but this is causing some real tension and frustration for me, as well as affecting my self esteem. What could the issue be, and should i just leave him as the problem does not seem to be going away?
The problem now is that He doesn't come anywhere near me, if i initiate it he shrugs it off. I have tried to talk about it with him but he shrugs it off that there is no problem. On the rare occasion he does relent and give in to my begging (yes, i beg for sex) He doesn't finish, it's a few mins of half hearted pumping and then he says he's tired, will finish later.
This may seem like a joke to some but it's a painful reality to me. I feel absolutely repulsive that he doesn't want to touch me at all. We have sex approx once or twice a month, but never to completion. I love him, but this is causing some real tension and frustration for me, as well as affecting my self esteem. What could the issue be, and should i just leave him as the problem does not seem to be going away?
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