Hi, I have been reading the posts on this site now for some time and can really relate to a lot of the stories and issues other men are having. Most of them generally contain a response to read a book called "No More Mr. Nice Guy". I always thought of myself as a "Nice Guy" or what I thought was a nice guy before reading the book. I am only about halfway through it and although I can relate to it so much that it is scary. However, it keeps going back to childhood experiences and abandonment issues. I can honestly say that as a child I cannot recall ever feeling as such. My parents are my heroes, they have always been there for me no matter what happens. They are far from judgmental and accept everything I do knowing that I am doing my best. There are no standards for me to live up to except that I try my best.
Is it possible to just be like this without any past childhood trauma causing it? This is way I hate therapy, they seem to always want to blame someone else or that someone else caused it. Why can't it just be my brain?
As a note I am just reading it cover to cover now, not doing the activities or sharing it with anyone else.
Is it possible to just be like this without any past childhood trauma causing it? This is way I hate therapy, they seem to always want to blame someone else or that someone else caused it. Why can't it just be my brain?
As a note I am just reading it cover to cover now, not doing the activities or sharing it with anyone else.
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