Hi there,
I would like your advice on something, I hope someone can help me out.
I was unwell in the middle of 2013 and I joined a forum for my particular problem. I met a guy on there who was also suffering from the same issue as me. We seemed to have a lot in common and we would talk quite a lot about our problems and there was something there between us, I don't really know what it was but I suppose I 'liked' him and he also told me he liked me
. I think really I liked him because he could relate to me and at the time I felt so alone, I don't think I actually liked him, liked him if that makes sense?
We would webcam/skype/facetime etc and we got pretty close, then I started to get better and I am so much better now and I want to get away from all the crap that I went through last year but I can't seem to whilst this person is still contacting me. He still tells me he likes me and that he would want to meet up but that's not what I want. I have also recently met someone in real life who I'm really interested in.
He is quite a sensitive person and I don't quite know how to word it to him to stop talking to me without hurting his feelings. If he messages me and I don't message back say for 2 days, I will get another message saying ''I really hope you're doing OK, please let me know'' and then I feel bad ignoring him because he helped me so much when I was ill. Do I just completely ignore him? or do I make him hate me? I don't know what to do about it. This person has depression as did I, that's why I'm so worried about the way in which I put it across.
I'm not into internet relationships, I've never had a problem getting a real life relationship. So this whole getting close online to someone is a kind of alien to me.
I know this might make me sound harsh but I'm not a bad person, I would be willing to listen and talk if it was anything to do with depression but I'm just not interested in any other way and somehow he makes me feel like I owe him something
I would like your advice on something, I hope someone can help me out.
I was unwell in the middle of 2013 and I joined a forum for my particular problem. I met a guy on there who was also suffering from the same issue as me. We seemed to have a lot in common and we would talk quite a lot about our problems and there was something there between us, I don't really know what it was but I suppose I 'liked' him and he also told me he liked me
. I think really I liked him because he could relate to me and at the time I felt so alone, I don't think I actually liked him, liked him if that makes sense?We would webcam/skype/facetime etc and we got pretty close, then I started to get better and I am so much better now and I want to get away from all the crap that I went through last year but I can't seem to whilst this person is still contacting me. He still tells me he likes me and that he would want to meet up but that's not what I want. I have also recently met someone in real life who I'm really interested in.
He is quite a sensitive person and I don't quite know how to word it to him to stop talking to me without hurting his feelings. If he messages me and I don't message back say for 2 days, I will get another message saying ''I really hope you're doing OK, please let me know'' and then I feel bad ignoring him because he helped me so much when I was ill. Do I just completely ignore him? or do I make him hate me? I don't know what to do about it. This person has depression as did I, that's why I'm so worried about the way in which I put it across.
I'm not into internet relationships, I've never had a problem getting a real life relationship. So this whole getting close online to someone is a kind of alien to me.
I know this might make me sound harsh but I'm not a bad person, I would be willing to listen and talk if it was anything to do with depression but I'm just not interested in any other way and somehow he makes me feel like I owe him something
Put the internet to work for you.
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