I've tried to be up front with my H about our pending divorce. I have realized, in part thanks to TAM, that my H probably thinks I'm just barking and will never really leave, but he's wrong.
So, I know I will leave. But how can I do this with minimal animosity? He tends to go off the deep end when things go badly. I'm fairly sure he's going to lose his s--- when I land that job and do move out. Our kids have been through the ringer already, hearing us fight and dealing with the tension and unhappiness at home. I want to avoid that in their future. I want them to come through this with as little harm as possible.
One of the main reasons our marriage is ending, and the one that worries me about how to do so amicably, is that my H doesn't communicate. When he does, it is in anger and he says some cold and heartless things. This is the last thing I want, but how do I leave without setting off WWIII? I know that I have to keep my cool and not get involved in ugly arguments, but is there anything I can do that could avoid the nasty I'm afraid will happen? My children need peace!!!
So, I know I will leave. But how can I do this with minimal animosity? He tends to go off the deep end when things go badly. I'm fairly sure he's going to lose his s--- when I land that job and do move out. Our kids have been through the ringer already, hearing us fight and dealing with the tension and unhappiness at home. I want to avoid that in their future. I want them to come through this with as little harm as possible.
One of the main reasons our marriage is ending, and the one that worries me about how to do so amicably, is that my H doesn't communicate. When he does, it is in anger and he says some cold and heartless things. This is the last thing I want, but how do I leave without setting off WWIII? I know that I have to keep my cool and not get involved in ugly arguments, but is there anything I can do that could avoid the nasty I'm afraid will happen? My children need peace!!!
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