Went on a couple of dates with a guy, he seemed very keen (and kept worrying about whether I'd enjoyed the date!) but then I didn't hear from him after the second date (although admittedly he was away with work and then on two holidays with friends for a while).
Thinking I had nothing to lose, I text him about three weeks later, just one line asking if he wanted to go for a pre-Xmas drink. He couldn't make it before going home for Xmas but said: 'definitely up for a post-Xmas drink though!'.
From this response, he seems keen but if that's the case then why did he not initiate another drink/date? Could it be that he's shy/insecure or just not interested enough to make the effort himself?
Any insight from you wise people would be very appreciated. :) I know it's difficult to know what to say to a stranger on an Internet forum, but I'm so confused at the moment that I appreciate any second/third opinions!
Thinking I had nothing to lose, I text him about three weeks later, just one line asking if he wanted to go for a pre-Xmas drink. He couldn't make it before going home for Xmas but said: 'definitely up for a post-Xmas drink though!'.
From this response, he seems keen but if that's the case then why did he not initiate another drink/date? Could it be that he's shy/insecure or just not interested enough to make the effort himself?
Any insight from you wise people would be very appreciated. :) I know it's difficult to know what to say to a stranger on an Internet forum, but I'm so confused at the moment that I appreciate any second/third opinions!
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