| I've known this man for about 9 months. We clicked/became friends quickly but both had respective partners at the time of meeting. Regardless, I always had an intuition he felt something for me. Eventually, he broke it off with the person he was with and I basically realised that he would be the only person I would consider dating were I not with my current partner. However things between my boyfriend and I were really good, and I never had thoughts further than that because we were happy. Until about 7 months later, when my relationship fell apart. My boyfriend became depressed and lashed out at me/said some awful things that ultimately damaged us too much to make me feel like I could get over. And I never knew when the next episode was going to occur. Anyway, my ex and I have been broken up just shy of 2 months. And I've been dating my friend for a month (I even feel ashamed writing that...) after he admitted feelings for me. Thing is we've already booked a weekend trip together for in a month's time and even though rationally I realise it is way fast I don't feel remotely strange about it. I think the biggest thing holding me back is feeling that I'll hurt my ex (he still texts me asking how I am etc). Even though I technically know I have no obligation to him/for him. Life has been stressful for the past few months and I suppose it has just made me want to have fun - though I may not be able to completely without hurting feelings. Help? | |||
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