Can't seem to get over my ex a year on

Hey, About a year ago my ex split up with me (for a number of reasons, the two most prominent ones were that she didn't want a long term relationship as I moved to London for uni - I've since left uni as it wasn't for me, and the other being that she wasn't sure whether she loved me) but I still can't seem to get over her. We were still talking after we split up for a couple of months but in November we met up and spoke about it all properly for one final time and I decided to cut all contact with her, delete her off Facebook, delete her number etc and wish her well with her life as we were just going around in circles. 2 months ago I had to email her to sort out our Glastonbury festival tickets as I put her deposit down with mine, but besides from the 5 emails that went back and forth we haven't spoken properly since November, and even then, that was blunt. Ever since we have split up I've found myself thinking about her every day and to be honest I do really miss her. I saw her at Glastonbury a few times and it brought quite a few of the feelings back and ever since I got home on Monday I've felt rubbish. We live in the same city and I often find myself paranoid about whether she's going to be at gigs or bars I go to. I've met someone since her but it didn't feel right so I had to call it off. Is it normal to still be hung up on somebody a year later? We haven't had a proper conversation since November and it's been playing on my mind every single day. I do miss her but I'm not sure it's about getting back with her, it's more about what I can do to stop feeling this way as I know she doesn't think about me like this. I lead quite a busy life and am very sociable so it's not about keeping myself busy... we lived together so it's quite difficult for me to be able to branch myself away from things that don't remind me of her. For example when we moved out we split the things we had such as furniture, which are still in my house, and I can't afford to replace the furniture. We also had practically everything in common and she helped me set up my company which I'm still running - effectively a daily reminder of her. I never really had closure as she was still leading me on up until that meeting in November - I did hope me cutting contact was closure but she was still dropping hints that she missed me in the run up to that so it didn't really go as I had hoped and I've felt like this ever since we stopped talking. I don't think there has been a moment where I have felt like I am okay and over her. Any help is appreciated. Thanks.

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