the only thing putting me off is his culture/background....tips?

hi guys. theres this really amazing guy that i met and he is half indian and half pakistani british and born and raised here in london. We get along really well and he asked me out for dinner tomorrow but i replied flirtatiously 'i will let you know if your lucky or not ;)' ive had a bad experience when i visited India with some friends last summer. long story short we were mistreated and looked down upon and the men looked at us like we were a piece of meat.. it made me sick and it still traumatizes me till this day. i hated it. And ive heard of all those awful stories in the media about the way in which men treat women in Pakistan too. i must admit my past experiences does make me cold to some of the people from these places and im scared that whether or not its to the extreme extent i had experienced in India myself, that some of the things i saw and heard might present itself with this new guy that makes me happy! what if he thinks like that or sometime in the future his family look at me the same way as those men in India or pakistan? am i overthinking? help...?

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