What I read - and deleted - on my wife's phone

I always use the incognito mode of google chrome when I use this site. Do you? Having to deal with someone who currently is not capable understanding what I am going through (read: what she put me through :)), I need a hiding place, somewhere where she doesn't read and reach, where I can vent freely. I still don't vent freely, hoping that one day I can show her my posts - after she heals - and we can laugh at it together. So whenever I am way too upset, I won't fully disclose what I feel ;) In any case, I used her phone to read this forum (which I often do whenever my phone is charging). She was sleeping upstairs and I came across one post that had a link to Shrink4men site: 13 Signs Your Wife or Girlfriend is a Borderline or a Narcissist I read it, and since it was very late at night I decided I would "forget" to close the link, and have her read it. Maybe that will give her some sort of a wake up call. Then I woke up in the morning and thought to myself 2 things: 1) She will not get it. All I am going to get is more $hit coming my way, her yelling and becoming even less secure etc etc. 2) It's me trying and hoping that she is going to change. WRONG, JOSH! she is not. Or at least until she decides. I truly hope something will one day wake up inside of her, and she will decide to treat her emotional issues. But until then... STOP TRYING TO FIX HER. DID YOU GET IT JOSH??? What do you think?

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