| My husband and I got married less than a year ago. As we're religious we'd never had sex before our wedding night. On that occasion, and since, he has had problems getting an erection and also maintaining it until he orgasms. We're both under 30. I'm into health so I 'made' him go to the doctors; they put it down to stress after doing a few checks (I'm not sure what - but testosterone levels were definitely included) and told us to use Viagra a couple of times, just to improve his confidence as there was nothing physically wrong. However, this hasn't helped. Our relationship is great - though if anything is a problem, I'm a very stressy individual and I worry that I have created the problem by 'wearing the trousers' in our relationship. I love my husband... but I can't be the one to start things up every time and at some point in my life I want him to be able to maintain it for long enough for us to both orgasm from intercourse. I want him to want me... I know it could take a while for us to both get 'good' at this and learn each other. I can totally accept that... but what I'm getting from him is a lack of desire to even try and that's the thing I struggle with. I'll do absolutely anything... I want us to be happy together completely and I feel like we're missing out on a huge source of potential joy. Advice, humour, stories... I'd appreciate anything at this point!!! | |||
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