Ladies: Were u main cause of dissatisfaction in 1st marriage, but improved in 2nd?

Without getting too into it, I have a wife who enjoys sex with me very much based on the physical response, but for reasons I cannot understand she shows no eagerness to please me, or meet my less than average sexual needs. (I don't claim to be the perfect husband, but a selfish lover I am not) I have a long post about it here. As I say in the thread, she is the total package, except she seems hell bent on destroying our relationship by ruining our sex life behind her control issues and hangups. I think she finally killed it. As I prepare for a life without her thoughts of her with someone else infiltrate my mind. She has never had a real relationship before me (when I met her she was a 23 y/o virgin) so she does not realize, as I do, that you learn a lot and mature a lot from failed relationships, and you're better (if not perfect) for the next one. That means that the next guy is gonna get all the good stuff that I got, WITHOUT the relationship-killing flaw that is her pathological, childish, and dogmatic attitude toward sex. This is my worst fear right now. I'm totally right about that, aren't I?

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