| Okay, well here is the story. My wife and I have been together for five years. Married for two years. Her father has hated me from day one for little to know reason. When we started dating I was not allowed around him or the family. After a couple of years and several attempts to break us up, things got better. We still didn't like each other but we both made very valid attempts to get along. He even offered to pay for a wedding and wanted to be apart of it. Not more than six months later he was screaming at wife for no reason what so ever (he has been to anger management classes before for his temper) and I took a stand for her. It resulted in a very bad verbal fight between him and I. After our fight I felt like my wife submitted to him and didn't stand up for me even after he threatened physical violence. Her solution was that I not go around him, and her time with him would be limited. I was okay with this for a while. However now almost two years later I can't take it any more. My wife really only sees her family on hoildays or special days like birthdays, so I really tried to be okay with that. Although it does stink to be left alone for at least half of ever holiday. The bigger problem is they have a reason to get together and throw family parties every month in which I am not welcome. My father in law also does things like have her x-boyfriend come out on the boat days that she will be there. I really love my wife with all my heart. I would and have done everything I know to make this work, but I feel like there is no good ending in site. I don't want to divorce my wife over her family, but I don't want to live like this forever either. What do we do? | |||
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