Am I rushing?

Hi everyone, I'm 24 years old, married for 2 years. About 2 months ago I totally stopped feeling attracted to my husband. It happened after 2 years of very little sex and a certain change of opinions about how to build our future. Although I feel he was a bait-and-switch, I know he's a great guy and deserves to be happy. I really like him as a person but not as a lover anymore. Since we often spend some time in different countries, I was thinking of asking him for a few months of separation. On one side, it breaks my heart because I know will hurt him very much. On the other side, I can't stop being "jealous" of single people's life and dream about the career and opportunities I left behind since I married him. I also feel ashamed to put my extended family through this. Am I rushing if I ask for a few/several months away before asking for divorce? I admit we rushed when getting married. 2 months is not much time (most advise 1 year, but is to before separating or before getting divorced?) I don't want to rush to destroy everything now but I start to feel uncomfortable with the little intimacy we have now and my head is always somewhere else. If he was just my boyfriend I would break up now. We have no kids either.

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