What to do with OM.

For those that don't know, short story is my ex fiance had a LTA for about 2 years with same OM. I found out through reading emails and emails of depressing amounts of vulgarity and many mocking me between her, OM, and her b!tch friends. After a span of false R and some support from family, I kicked her out and washed my hands clean of her. Currently living with my GF and have a child 2 1/2 years old. Theres more, but this thread is about OM. OM was some overly muscled douchbag who she met who the hell knows where. Post DDay I waited for him outside a spot I knew he'd be and gave him the beating of his life. Despite all his muscles, he did not know how to fight so within one minute hes on the ground holding his hands above his head while I use one arm to hold them away and pummel him with the other. Luckily, I was not arrested, nor forced to pay OM's medical bills due to coincidence or god. I have only seen OM one other time since that day, until 2 days ago. Like most people going through infidelity, exercise is a suggested method of letting of steam and getting in shape. I've been excercising at the same gym for about 5 years now 3-5 days a week, I'm a regular. This Monday I go and I see OM wiping off some dead lift bars. I walk up and ask him what the hell hes doing here. He tries to cop tough like I didn't beat the sh!t out of him 5 years ago(Nearly made me smack him then and there) and said hes a personal trainer and I should mind my own business. I tell him to variety of highly impossible things to himself and since I started triggering a bit on the spot, I left before finishing my workout so I wouldn't do anything I'd regret. He is in better shape than I last saw him outside a restaraunt, but I toned up these past years and have no doubt I could manhandle him again, but I don't want to. The thing is, I could probably get him to lose his job. If you've been a gym a while you know personal trainers stick around more for how well they get along with the people who workout than what they actually know about training. Over the years I've seen more than a few overly angry, sullen, and awkward PTs, and they are usually gone within a month or two and replaced by the male model or chipper blond type. I know a lot of people there and the owner is my friend. Most there also know about the infidelity I suffered and worked out with me and we got to know each other. I let slip hes OM or raise a stink about it I could probably get him let go. I know his job and fionancial situation by the way too. My dumb ass ex racked him up some nice debt while they were screwing around behind my back. Partying, leasing cars, crap like that. Also heard from a friend he lost his job at the factory he worked at. The thing is should I? I don't owe OM a damn thing I know that, but I'm uneasy about messing with another man's livelihood. I don't care about the SoB, but I wouldn't want a person on the streets due to my personal malice. While I wouldn't lose any sleep over it it'd probably bother me. But then I think of the stories I've read by people like dig about getting back at OM and feel more partial to it. And then I think that if I don't, I'd be seeing the loser on a weekly basis and get a bit angry. But then the first thought comes back and I can't make a decision. I could probably use equipment on the west floor and not see his ass, but fk him why should I change my workout routine because of him. Any ideas? and does getting him the boot mean I haven't moved on?

Put the internet to work for you. via Personal Recipe 2629979