| My story starts 20 years ago. I met a 19 year old girl at the music store I worked at. Found her to be super hot and smart. I was 29. We married a year later after I found out she was pregnant. I married her because I wanted to live with my daughter and make it work. Within the first year of marriage I thought she might be having sex with a woman we both knew. They were both hot. She came home drunk one night and told me she had made it with this girl. I didn't think much of it. I was a young rocker and had seen it in the bus many times. It never happened again. Fast forward 8 years. I'm working in medicine, my wife is working at the same hospital in IT. We have 3 kids now. I let her go out with her work buddies all the time. Well one of the young work boys and his friend would go out with the girls from IT when they went out. I didn't know this. The two guys would take my wife and one of her friends back to his place and sex it up. He left suck marks all over my wife's body for me to find. I found them Jan. 10th 2002. The second worse day of my life. We went to MC for a year. She lied the whole year and was still seeing #1 during work. I made her quit her job she went to work traveling where she met #2 in Atlanta. Could not find her for 2 days. Met with lawyers and was told not enough evidence for #2 and #1 never happened according to the law. I had slept with her after I knew about it. The next was a EA I guy from her previous work (not #1) was calling and texting her. I stopped that. Then the last was about 2 1/2 years ago Facebook high school friend hit the list. He was taking her out to eat at lunch while I worked. I sent that married banker a message on Facebook from my account and was going to blow the lid off his life. He stopped. You wonder why I'm still married to her? It's not simple. She has diagnosed mental disorders. ( can't D in this state) She has told me on many occasions if I left she would bring women over. With my kids this was no option either. Now I have always gotten sex from her. It's not passionate but it's sex and its often. Right now we own a medical software biz that's doing very very well. My thoughts are... Who to say the next one would be any better. I'm happy enough. No money problems. I tell you guys this so you can see there is light at the end of the tunnel. Even though the tunnel can be longer than you wish it to be. I am a better man through it all. I'm 49 and healthy. | |||
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