| I am having some serious insecurities about my new marriage. My Husband and I have been married now for 2 Years and 6 months. It was a wonderful blissful long dating experience. I realized he was the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with and I still feel in my heart that to be so. However we have endured some detrimental? struggles in our marriage so early on that most couples don't really face within those few short years. Long story short We both have had our share of family squabbles his family never really accepted me and well that was problem number one, and when we first started out we didn't have the best of everything but I feel like we have came a long way Financially and emotionally. Our Sex life is not the greatest during the first few months we faced sexual troubles in the marriage that had my Husband searching for answers he went to doctor after doctor and finally d iscovered he had low testosterone and low thryoid the doctor told him as young as we both were he should want to do it as much as I did. He also asked the question I had so many nights and days asked myself, Are you attracted to her? and he said of course why would I marry her if I wasn't My reason for posting this is because I am at my wits end My DH has stopped going to the doctors to get help for his problem he says its because of no insurance, I say thats not a good excuse. He also says I talk about it constantly but it has been a month now and we haven't done anything and when we do have Sex its "wambamthankyamam" I never enjoy Playfulness and that charm I fell in love with 6 years ago. I have tried talking to him and he says that hes stressed and I ask to much of him but guys help me understand here... Shouldn't I deserve his love and attention after all I don't ask much from him other than that we both work, we have no children I keep the home clean I keep him fed and well shouldn't we still be in honeymoon mode??? PLEASE HELP ME GUYS :( |
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