Is it normal to bond less or more with our children?

My first son, age 5, i went back to work he was 6 weeks old, my second son age 2 1/2 i was a sahm when he was born and have been with him ever since except for a year where i worked part time, i feel like i bonded differently with them and sometimes it makes me feel sooooo guilty! And it def was not on purpose bc i hate favoritism! Could it be due to the fact my first baby was unplanned and i wasnt married? And my second was planned? And my first is a great kid but much harder to deal with, always wants everything his way and at his time, is not affectionate, doesnt like to cuddle, an 2nd baby is sweet, likes to cuddle a little more, likes to hug and kiss and is more easy going? Is this normal? I dont want to feel this way! I want to love and bond with them equally, help????? Posted via Mobile Device

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