does anyone still think about their ex...years down the line?

It's almost three years since I broke up with an ex, and not a day goes by where I don't think about him or wonder what he's doing...sometimes I even fantasise about seeing him again and what it would be like. I have had longer relationships since, (We were only together for 9 months) and am in a good relationship now...but I just can't get back that amazing feeling I had with this certain ex. Is this at all normal? I know people say you never forget your first love...but surely to the point of obsessing about him daily is not right (plus he wasn't even my first love, i'd had a 2 year relationship before him)? I am worried that if I haven't got over him in three years I never will and I'm never going to be truly happy with anyone else. Sometimes I think I would be happier my memory of him was completely wiped!

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