| I'm 28 and have been married for almost two years. I absolutely love my husband but I'm having a hard time between his mother and his son. Ok, so here's the scoop... first off my husband has full custody of his son because his mother took him out of the country many years ago. He might have been sexually molested, were not sure. He has touched his cousin on more then ten occasions but he is a boy. He has also bullied a kid in the bathroom at school and not let him leave the toilet after going to the bathroom. I was very disgusted as well as my husband. I now have a daughter with my husband and she's almost a year. I am very scared his son will touch her. He has finally agreed to put him in counseling after our marriage therapist has said he thinks he could touch her without help from a licensed therapist. I was molested as a child so therefor I am definitely more protective over my daughter. Needless to say if he ever touches her, he won't ever come near her again and neither will my husband. My mother in law is another issue. I have gone out of my way to try to work on our relationship. I took her out for lunch twice and dinner once while I was planning our wedding. She doesn't include me in girl things with the family and when I ask to come hang out she says she's busy but then I find out my husbands sis in law was over there. I hate her with a passion and wish she wasn't around! So my question is... Is the a chance to work on our marriage or should I give up and move on? I do love this man but want him to understand his son has issues and he needs help. Oh another thing, he does call me mom but that's when I was helping raising him, my husband has decided that he wants to say how he is raised not me so I asked for him to not call me mom cause I don't want my daughter to see it later and think its ok for her not to listen to me. Please help but be nice [/SIZE] | |||
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