| Hi, My wife has an autoimmune illness that flares up from stress and many other things. The illness and all the medication she's on results her not having a sex drive at all and her lady parts are very sensitive and sex is painful. This has been going on for quite a while... years I don't want to pressure to have sex in anyway because she'll try even if she's not in the mood and even if it is painful. We rarely have sex and when we do, I know it's probably just for my sake. I've never really masturbated and I don't do that now. If I did start and she found out, she would probably feel hurt, inadequate etc. I just wait it out but, I'm so horny all the time. I know she feels bad about the situation even though it's not her fault. She's suggested getting a hooker. Lately, I've started getting turned on by her mother when she's around. I want to tell my wife what's going. She won't be mad and will understand, since we're not having sex very often she'd understand. She's always been BFF's with her mom and might even get a kick out of it. However, just bringing it up will be putting pressure on her to have sex and she would try to do it even if it hurts. The other issue is if I tell her, there's a high possibility that she'll suggest that her mom and I help each other out sexually. Her mom is divorced. I believe her mom would say no at first but might rationalize that for her daughters sake and her marriage she should to step in and help out or I might leave for another woman. I wouldn't but that how she might rationalize it. I'm not sure if I should tell her about all this or not. If i'm wrong and she does gets upset the stress could cause a flare up and she'd end up in the hospital which is dangerous for her. If I don't tell her and she finds out later, she'd be upset that I didn't tell her. |
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