Daughter and divorce

Every weekend I have my daughter, who is proving to be the joy admist the storms between me and my STBXW. She's very obedient, not stubborn unlike both of us - at least not to me, and appreciates what we give her. Unfortunately its obvious she's not very happy that my wife and I have failed her time and time again, especially in our seperation and impending divorce. She's not very happy about how we no longer go out together (all three of us), and not pleased about the whole arrangement of being "passed around". Is there anyway to lessen this disappointment? Or to explain it to her reasonably without too much detail? She's nearing 5

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