Was feeling ok but now I've been smacked back down

Hi All, I've posted before about how my husband said he was no longer in love with me and wanted a divorce. I then found out that he was sending e-mails to a work colleague 48 hours after we split telling her he missed her so I believe that there was some sort of affair. I received a letter from his solicitor today (I am representing myself) stating that my husband will not defend the divorce but he refuses to accept that he committed adultery on the basis that we had separated. It has knocked me for 6 and I don't know why. I was just starting to feel like there was a light at the end of the tunnel.

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