| Hi TSR, Basically I've been with my current girlfriend since the start of second year and our relationship so far has been awesome. A few weeks ago we had a conversation about our sexual histories as she was really curious about it for some reason. She was a virgin when she first came to uni, whereas I had only had sex with 1 person who I was with for about a year. She told me that in first year she had slept with close to 30 different guys. She also talked about how she had a competition with her friends during freshers where they would sleep with blokes of different sizes and ethnicities (e.g small asian guy, big black guy and so on). Personally I only have sex when I'm in a relationship with people I genuinely liked. I wasn't expecting her to be the same as me but I certainly wasn't expecting this. In fact I find it repulsive, and if I knew this before I fell for her I probably wouldn't have entered a relationship with her. I tried to act like I wasn't bother by it when she told me about it and to this day she has no idea that I feel this way about it. Now I can't get the thought of constantly seeing her previous conquests on nights out. I've also begun to notice that she acts really strange ushering me away from a group of guys that she recognises and making us take a different route to the bar. Her own sexual history nether really crossed my mind before she brought it up. But now that she's openly told me this I can't help but feel repulsed to the point where I do look at her differently now. Despite this I really love her to bits (she feels the same about me). Some of you might think I'm being stupid about it but its really bothering me and I dunno know how to get past it. I'm scared that this might destroy the wonderful relationship we had up until this point :( Any advice would be much appreciated Thanks | |||
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I have a problem with my girlfriends previous promiscuity in first year
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