| I started dating a girl about 6 weeks ago. I am 24, she is 21. Without sounding vain, people say that I'm an attractive person, and I find her very attractive as well, although no noe else seems to think so (which I find bewildering). But anyway, she has dyslexia, dyspraxia and ADD. She can't spell and never made it past GCSE's, only learnt to read at age 14. Saying all of these things, her creative childlike mind I love so much, I find her attractive, I find her randomness (which I assume is part of her ADD) exciting and fun and overall, I feel like I am falling in love with her. However, there are some very strange behaviours that she has displayed that I keep pondering about. I try not to think about it too much but I can't help it, and would love your opinions/advice. After our second date she said on facebook ''I was thinking and think it's about time I changed my relationship status to in a relationship with you". Although this made me very happy, it also confused me a lot. She barely knows me, and she's only been out with me twice! I assume she just feels very comfortable with me and due to her issues is a bit naieve maybe? However, I'm fine with entering a relationship early, it's just a word... although I'm not used to being in one so quickly, especialy since we hadn't even kissed when she suggested it. She is very awkward with physical affection. She likes it, but is very awkward about it. I feel like I've been slowly introducing it to her, putting my arm around her as we walk, holding her hand etc. I know she likes it, she is just not used to it. She never ever asks me questions about myself, and seems to have a very limited attention span when i talk about my experiences, but if I ask her questions about herself she will give me a lecture about it, and seems to get really engaged. Although I do like this as I am interested in her, it does make me wonder how she can feel shes in a relationship with me when she doesnt actualy know much about me at all? I'm worried that if I don't constantly entertain her, or think of fun things to do when I see her she will get bored fast and its a pressure. It's a pressure im willing to go through because I Like her enough but still. Maybe her impulsivity to jump into things so quickly is her short attention span? I also worry that due to that, she will get bored of me quickly? Shes already talking about spending a weekend together at centre parcs, which is great, but it does seem a tad bit strange even though I like the idea. The only comfort I have when I worry that she'l get bored is in thinking that she probably hasn't had a boyfriend like me before (I hate saying that as it makes me sound very egoistic when I'm not). No one I know understands why I like her, but I really do. As I said, I could love her so easily. I'll really appreciate any help/opinions/suggestions. Thanks a lot. | |||
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