| I am really concerned with how fat is effecting our marriage. My husband was fat when I married him but fairly active. He has put on even more weight (probably 150# or more overweight). I was maybe 20 pounds too heavy when I married him and now I am very fat too. I feel like I have just followed his bad habits (my fault completely). I am finding the fat is really bothering me. I am trying to lose but he doesn't seem to be and it is very hard doing it alone, I end up backsliding (still my fault). I am noticing he is having a 'fat smell' and it is nasty. My clothes are busting at the seams too and fat is not attractive on either of us. I want us both to be healthier and more active for ourselves and our kids. We have a lousy sex life and I'm sure this contributes. He is not a large man in that one way(I have never blamed him for that or let that be a deal breaker, I was not born a supermodel either) but with all the fat pad around it makes the situation worse and just too fat and lethargic to get the job done. Anyone successfully overcome this or can relate:scratchhead:? |
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