| My ex seems to be coming out of his fog, realizing how much this mess he made is going to cost him in terms of child support and visitation. He still won't make a move to fix this, even though crazy me would reconcile if he were truly remorseful. Yesterday we texted and he revealed to me that he would take our son full time so I can be "free". I told him no, my son and I are a package deal and no man will separate us. Then he was like he would like more time with him so maybe I would let my son live with him during the summers. Again, I said no. I told him that I didn't cause this mess so I will not punish myself from being away from my son for a month. I told him he should come to home during his days off (he lives in a different state for work) and he will be able to see his son all he wants. He said that it is getting too expensive to travel here frequently. I said, if he didn't do what he did, then I would have been movi down there at the end of this year to be with him AND our son wouldn't have to grow up with a split family. My ex is now paranoid that another man will take his place as his father. Seems like more of a reason to reconcile and fix your family but I guess confronting your demons are too hard. We have child support court in 3 weeks. I wonder what else will he say. And for the record, I honestly doubt he would be able to handle being a single father. He lives in a new state, doesn't know anyone, works at 4 AM everyone morning and doesn't know how to forward think. Who would watch our son at 4 AM when he is working? What happens if our son gets sick? How will he get our son to school? His suggestion was obviously a desperate attempt. Maybe he is afraid of the child support order about to be handed to him. Any thoughts? Especially from the WS? Why won't this man just fix his family and keep us together? Pride? Still in fog? His mother doesn't like me and I know that is part of it but he stood up to her for our relationship before. | |||
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