| My wife and I have been married for thirty years. We have been having problems the last last three years. Recently she had an sexting affair with someone that started just after she started taking hormone treatments. She said she got so horny and did not know how to bring it on to me. Our sex with each other had been winding down to twice a year for the last few years. I have a high sex drive and find porn to the easiest. She has admitted that she masturbates also. We have been doing a lot of talking lately and I told her that a lot of my fantasies are about her but I am afraid to act on them for fear of rejection. My fault too as i have done my share of rejection as well. She has started talking about some of her fantasies also and some new things she would like to try. Nothing to kinky I might ad. I think we both have gotten to a place where we feel uncomfortable with each other sexually.When we do have sex it seams that it is is all about her. I am always doing all the work, While I do enjoy pleasing her and making sure she is satisfied I usually end up feeling like the servant. Well yesterday she suggested we both go see a sex counselor, She set one up and tonight she has her first meeting but I cant go this time. Is that normal? I am trying really hard to work on our marriage and i do think that our lack of intimacy has taken a bad toll on our marriage. So my question is can a sex therapist be helpful? I am afraid they might bring out the worst in us and damage our marriage further. I don't understand why the first visit is only with her. Could this be a good thing or should I bee worried? | |||
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